Friday, March 26, 2010

Bersantai makan-makan di D'Terrace...Steamboat/BBQ HALAL..

Salam, 2 hari lepas gi check out this place...sebabnya nmpk Eyna publish kat FB dia ttg this place..since myself & hubby balik lambat & kerana hubby kesian kat hamba..dia ajak makan luar...so I apalagi..seperti orang ngantuk disorong bantal ..hhehe..tanpa membuang masa I pun suggest lah tempat ni.... heheh.
Verdict ...bagus ..atmosphere -bagus, food bagus...all you can eat for only a minimal charge...
carbonated drinks free refills..plus ada buah2an & ice cream...
So memang I recommend lah you all gi makan kat tmpt ni ...
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Time nak balik...anak owner tempat ni tolong snap kan gambar...

Flyers...D'terrace

Danish with his mischevious smile...

Tengok tu ..tak yah susah susah..Danish merangkap "chef kenit " :-)

Yum yum... tgk tu..yang kena bbq..sotong, udang, daging etc....yang dalam pot tu ada lagi..dalam pot tu ada 2 kuah , clear soup & Tom yam..


Mr & Mrs Rahmat

Danish " Datanglah beramai-ramai ke sini..suma ada..Ice Cream pun free ..."


Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Cara-cara menjadi isteri kesayangan suami


1. Isteri yang cerdik

Bukan cerdik dari sudut akademik sahaja. Gulungan ijazah bukanlah kejayaan yang perlu anda tonjolkan untuk menjadi isteri dambaan suami. Isteri yang cerdik benar-benar mengenali siapa suaminya, tahu bagaimana mengambil hati suami di waktu sedih, pandai mengangkat suami pada pandangan orang lain, tidak hanya merajuk untuk mendapat perhatian dari suami. Wahai isteri-isteri anda sebenarnya mampu lakukan ini!

2.’Assistant’ dalam pengurusan kewangan keluarga

Jangan menjadi seorang isteri yang hobinya suka shopping aje. Anda akan membuat sumai pening. Lebih-lebih lagi jika budget kewangan suami anda adalah di luar kemampuannya. Sebagai seorang isteri andalah yang menjadi pembantu dalam perancangan ekonomi keluarga. Anda juga membantu jika anda bekerja. Tetapi bagaimana jika anda suri rumah sepenuh masa? Jika anda tidak berkemampuan untuk membantu meningkatkan ekonomi keluarga, biarlah sekurang-kurangnya anda menjadi pengurus yang bijak terhadap budget bulanan yang diberikan oleh suami anda.

3. Manager dalam segala hal

Suami diberikan kuasa untuk memimpin kerana suami lebih rasional dalam membuat keputusan. Tetapi tidak dapat menguruskan semua perkara tanpa adanya isteri. Maka andalah wahai isteri-isteri yang perlu menjadi ‘manager’. Makan pakai suami, anak-anak, kebersihan rumah, perbelanjaan rumah dan perkara-perkara kecil yang diperlukan dalam kehidupan berkeluarga tidak akan dapat diuruskan tanpa bantuan isteri. Anda perlu memahami hakikat ini kerana sekiranya anda mampu menguruskan semuanya dengan cekap dan baik maka sudah pasti apabila suami anda pulang dari bekerja, beliau akan memberikan senyuman yang sempurna kerana menghargai anda.

4. Selalu di belakang suami

Ramai isteri mengharapkan suami berada selalu di samping mereka. Tetapi mereka terlupa bahawa ramai suami lari dari isteri kerana isteri mereka tidak pernah berada di belakang mereka terlalu sibuk dengan urusan lain. Seorang isteri perlu menjadi penenang kepada suami, berikan suami kata-kata semangat dan dakapan mesra di saat emosi mereka kacau. Sekiranya anda mampu berbuat demikian, percayalah bahawa tidak akan ada wanita lain di mata suami anda. Berikan sokongan dan galakan walaupun mungkin ada perbezaan pada minat dan hobi anda berdua.

5. Menjaga perut suami dan anak-anak

Yang ini paling penting. Kalau mahukan kasih sayang lebih dari suami kena tahu apa masakan kegemaran suami. Walaupun mungkin masakan anda tidak sehebat masakan chef, tetapi hakikatnya suami tetap mahukan air tangan isterinya dalam menyediakan makanan. Tangan seorang isteri sudah tentu bukan sahaja menyediakan yang terbaik dalam menu untuk keluarganya, tetapi juga sudah pasti isteri yang hebat akan berdoa untuk setiap usaha menyediakan makan minum suaminya.

6. Pandai jaga diri

Isteri perlu pandai jaga diri dan family. Maklumlah mungkin ada ketikanya suami ‘out station’ kerana berkursus atau atas urusan kerja yang lain. Maka sudah tentu isteri yang pandai jaga diri dan famili akan memberikan kelegaan di hati suami.

7. Perunding imej

Kalau suami anda nampak handsome di pejabat, sebenarnya isterilah yang mendapat pujian. Terutama di pandangan mata orang-orang tua. Sebab itu isteri perlu tahu menjaga imej suami. Bila digelar sebagai perunding imej suami, maka isteri juga perlu lebih-lebih lagi pandai mengurus imej diri sendiri. Jangan hanya nampak cantik ketika berada di luar rumah, sedangkan ketika di rumah baju T-shirt dan kain batik menjadi pakaian utama. Cuba ubah situasi ini jika anda ingin menjadi isteri kesayanagan suami anda.

8. Menjaga keluarga mertua

Yang terakhir, jangan hanya menyayangi suami anda sahaja. Anda juag perlu menjaga hati semua ahli keluarga sebelah suami anda. Lebih -lebih laigi ibu mertua. Percayalah anda benar-benar menjadi dambaan suami apabila anda mengambil berat tentang sakit demam mertua anda. Anda menjaga mertua anda seperti ibu kandung sendiri. Kerana itu semua akan membuatkan suami anda rasa dihargai kerana anda menerima dirinya dan keluarganya.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

I will survive

Dah masuk hari ke18 kat sini.
Bosan asyik-asyik makan nasi bungkus.
Rindu kat anak and wifey tapi terpaksa untuk masa depan kami juga.

Kena training pulak kat HK.Tak tahulah mcmana.ajak wifey, dia tak boleh cuti.
5 hari pulak tu.
Nasib hari tu dah shopping ngan Linda beli Maggi & Brahims banyak banyak.
Hope everything goes well lar.

RAK*

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Chaotic February ...

Salam,

Lama betul tak update.
Well where shall I start ya?

Ok ... masuk hari ni dah hampir 1/2 bulan hubby training di Shah Alam.
Yup he got a new job offer ..alhamdulillah.
Bubudak alhamdulillah behaved very well..

As for me ni masuk minggu ke-2 I'm working at a new place..new job offer gak ..so far so good ..alhamdulillah..

Hubby balik 4 hari for the Chinese New year holiday ..sempatlah melepaskan rindu kat anak2.My MIL pun masak for him semalam..banyak gak lauk ..sempat my MIL dalam kesibukan kerja sempat masakkan untuk anak dia ..:-)
Hubby will fly off to Hong Kong next week for 4 days for training.
Hubby ajak I ikut ..tapi I'm still on probation period so..malaslah nak ambik cuti..karang unpaid plak heheh. kalau masih kerja kat tmpt lama for sure I apply leave punya heheh.

As for Infinity..kena slow down jap..bnyk order rcvd I fwd pada kengkawan bakers I sebab I tak sempat .x pelah tolong kawan2 (anak2 murid).Mudah2an March nanti keadaan will be back normal ya ..Amin...

Friday, January 22, 2010

Family activity last week

Salam,

Dah lama tak beriadah bersama family ku ... di sebabkan Mama yang memanjang busy hehe.. finally last weekend sempat gaklah kami berjogging di pagi Sabtu ...
Haha Mama tak lepaskan peluang naik buai hehe cam bebudak je kata Abah :-P







Friday, January 01, 2010

Cuti2 Malaysia









Before the end of 2009, kami sekeluarga telah bercuti-cuti Malaysia di Bukit Gambang Resort City, Kuantan Pahang dan lepas tu ke Kuala Lumpur and Bangi before heading back south.

Biasalah destinasi kami kalau tak ke tempat yang ada pantai mesti ke tempat yang ada water theme park hehhe...kami sekeluarga jenis yang tak boleh nampak air hehe...:-)
Rata-rata tempat yang ada theme park kami dah sampai..Lost City of Tambun, Sunway Lagoon, Bukit Merah, Waterpark Pedas, Batu Pahat, Waterworld Melaka ...dan banyak lagi :-P
( pssst...ekceli yang terover excited gi tmpt cam ni adalah ....En Rahmat :-) hehe jgn marah B)

Baru-baru ni kat Bukit Gambang, suma water slides dia naik ngan Cha... adois.. tinggi-tinggi slides tu... tapi naik berulang-ulang..pening den di buatnya...Anak hamba yang sulung tu pun sama naik cam bapaknya...

Anyway our review tentang Bukit Gambang.... bagus untuk family melepak arr... sebab suma ada... for more details korang search lah internet ya for more details...

To all our families & frens out there Happy New Year ..may 2010 bring you much more joy & happiness ....Amin.

Monday, December 28, 2009

Happy Anniversary

Salam, hari ini adalah hari yang paling bahagia buat kami berdua ..sbb hari ni adalah Ulangtahun perkahwinan kami yang ke 13 tahun... sekejap jer ...pejam celik , pejam celik dah 13 tahun kami bersama..Alhamdulillah.. Ya Allah kami mohon agar kau berkatilah rumahtangga kami sentiasa ..Amin...

Below ni a gift from Hubby ( thks dear ..lurve it :-) ).


Ini pula Prune Cupcakes yang I order from my good friend Wan ..thks Wan ..sedap CC ni :-)
I sengaja tak nak CC ni di make upkan ..heheh aleh aleh jerr health conscious ek ..heheh :-)

Yang ini pula a Dust Buster for Hubby ..hope it'll come handy when you're cleaning the mess created by our lil "Gremlins "heheh:-)




Saturday, December 12, 2009

Reviving your marriage


Salam it's December again..and as usual both of us received lots of Wedding Invitation.

Both of us were married in the month of December too :-)


Today N3 is an article which I came across while surfing the net. I have a friend who is now in a dilemma as she felt that her marriage is falling apart. She confided to me recently that it is so hard to communicate with her husband " Mr Z" without ending with a fight. Sometimes she said they're not in speaking term for days... Susah tu husband & wife tak communicate.

To my friend "Nxxx" banyak bersabar and berdoa semoga rumahtangga kalian diberkati dan berkekalan.. Amin.


HOW TO REVIVE YOUR MARRIAGE
It is very sad to see so many married couples end up in divorce. It is no exaggeration to say that millions of marriages break down every year.

One marriage counsellor observed regarding those marrying today: "One-quarter will end up in the divorce court, while another one-quarter will keep their marriages legally intact for a variety of reason, but will get little satisfaction from them."
No marriage is exempt. In fact, your marriage may be experiencing turmoil right now.

So, what can you do to revive your marriage? How can you make it healthy once more?

In order to revive your marriage you must first acknowledge that there is something wrong with your marriage.
This is something that many couples fail to do and with not doing so, they find it difficult to see how they can be helped.

In fact, a mistake that many make is that they tend to be unrealistic and so are their expectations toward their spouse. They are influenced by what they see in movies, read from books and television dramas that are far from real life.

When their dreams do not come true, they feel cheated, bitter and unsatisfied.
Mental and emotional strain plus the difference in upbringing of each partner contributes to disagreements about everything - money, in-laws and children.

Communication is the most vital factor if you wish to revive your marriage.

Set the mood to have a heart to heart talk with your spouse. Prepare beforehand what you want to say and the points you want to make so that you will be able to do this in a rational and calm way when you sit down together.

Make it an aim to discuss differences and not attack one another.

There is an old saying: "Be fast in listening, be slow in talking and be slower in anger."

Express to your spouse how you feel. Be honest and open and if you feel misunderstood say so. Try to let your partner finish what they are saying before you speak.

Also, recognise that part of reviving your marriage may require changes.

It is not uncommon to hear a wife complains of how her husband has changed by not being the same romantic guy he used to be.

Or a husband saying that his wife is not the same sweet girl she was to him.

So reviving your marriage may require you to spice things up. To help you realize any of your shortcomings, look at your photos before you got married. This can put you in mind of how you have changed. By doing this, you may see how much you have altered, and this will help you to know what changes you need to make.

Develop more warmth and intimacy to find more pleasure in each other's company with your spouse. Most importantly make time to be together..

It takes a lot of work to bring about and then continue a successful union. Couples can seek advice from self-help books or from a marriage counselor as long as that is what you both want to do.

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Nurul Batrisyia turns 10

Salam
On 22nd November my eldest daughter turns 10. Yup..dah besar dah anak hamba :-)
Bday dia falls on Sunday but Hubby took all of us to Singapore Zoo on Saturday..

Seronok betul budak2 tu tgk binatang hehe..almaklumlah Zoo Johor tu kecik je heheh :-P
Pada yang belum pergi tu jika ada kelapangan pergilah..
Ticket price Adult SGD25/per person, kids 3yrs above SGD 12.50.

Below are some pictures taken..














































Sunday, November 01, 2009

My 2 tiny helpers

Semalam I buat tempahan cupcakes sampai pukul 11.36 malam.. dan 2 helper ku took the opportunity mendeco cupcakes jugak..tgklah tu deco dia orang tu heheh ..anyway pukul 12.59 malam baru kami tidur ( selepas mengemas dsbnya ..)







Friday, October 30, 2009

Aktiviti ku minggu ni


Salam,
Ramai yang Skype and YM saya menanyakan kenapa menyepi? hehe the reason being are :-
1) Ter "spend" bnyk sgt time bercucuk tanam kat Farmville heheh , I believed ramai yg tgh hooked up ngan this application kan. kalau tak takkan topic Farmville @ Facebook ni di bincangkan dalam Topik Pagi di Sinar FM :-P
Betullah ...cam addicted je jadi petani Farmville ni hahah...I pun dah nak masuk level 25 ni hahah ..duit pun dah over 200k ..kalau lah duit tu real money syoknya haha..
2) Last 2 days I was out of the office attending Process Approach Training kat Grand Paragon..

3) Ada project frozen food yang tengah saya usahakan :-)

4) And tolong my doters preparing for their final exam.

Oklah till next N3...



Sunday, October 18, 2009

Open Door


Salam ,

Raya dah pun sampai ke penghujungnya.. sekejap je kan? Pejam celik pejam celik dah habis raya:-)
Semalam adalah hari yang paling banyak orang jemput untuk Open House.. yelah sempena cuti Deepavali & penutup raya.

Samalah dgn kami. Semalam semua jemputan kami tak dapat pergi sebab kawan-kawan hubby & kawanku nak datang beraya.
Kepada semua rakan dan famili yang menjemput kami semalam mintak maaf banyak banyak sebab kami tak dapat hadir.

Oleh kerana this year kami tak buat Open house, ramai yang bertanya..so kami jemput mereka datang ..kami cakap bukan open house tapi open door heheh ( sebab buat bukan besar-besaran ).

Alhamdulillah ramai yang datang semalam. so tak membazirlah juadah yang telah di sediakan.
Sempat jugak kita buat Homemade Chocs & Cupcakes untuk mereka ( sebab kebanyakkan mereka ni our best & close friends). Alhamdulillah ramai pulak yang berkenan dgn cupcakes & chocolates yang kita buat & ada yang dah placed order.

Jiran-jiran pun kami jemput jugak. Lepas tetamu pulang Hubby puji kita , katanya "walaupun takde maid u managed to arranged everything smoothly ya). Alhamdulillah jabwabku.

Malam ni nampaknya tidur lambat lagilah kita sebab nak buat tempahan chocolates & cupcakes tu :-) Tapi no worries sebab kalau kita stay up buat cakes normally hubby akan temankan, thanks dear kerana memahami minatku :-)

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Pretty Lady looking for Rich guy...


Salam,


Got this from my friend and wud like to share it with you guys ...enjoy :-)


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A young and pretty lady posted this on a popular forum:
Title: What should I do to marry a rich guy?

I’m going to be honest of what I’m going to say here. I’m 25 this year. I’m very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with $500k annual salary or above. You might say that I’m greedy, but an annual salary of $1M is considered only as middle class in New York. My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of $500k annual salary? Are you all married? I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you? Among those I’ve dated, the richest is $250k annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit. If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden (?), $250k annual income is not enough.

I’m here humbly to ask a few questions:
1) Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)
2) Which age group should I target?
3) Why most wives of the riches is only average-looking? I’ve met a few girls who doesn’t have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys
4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend? (my target now is to get married)

Ms. Pretty


Here’s a reply from a Wall Street Financial guy:

Dear Ms. Pretty,

I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyze your situation as a professional investor. My annual income is more than $500k, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I’m not wasting time here.

From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain. Put the details aside, what you’re trying to do is an exchange of “beauty” and “money”: Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square. However, there’s a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can’t be prettier year after year. Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It’s not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worried 10 years later

By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a “trading position”. If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term – same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or “leased”. Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income. This has better chance than finding a rich fool.

Hope this reply helps. If you are interested in “leasing” services, do contact mesigned, J.P. Morgan