
Hmmm.... we're kinda in a dilemma lately due to we hv rcvd request from my MIL asking for money....
Don't get me wrong .....we have no problem to give if it's meant for her BUT we have been informed by our sister in law(s) that the money is for Achid ( My hubby youngest brother)....
For what purpose you asked? Well it's becoz he needs the money to pay his car monthly dues. To make matter worst the car has been repossessed.And total money due in order to get his back (according to my sister in law -Lin is about 2.5k)
My hubby & I have decided NOT to give due to the below reason(s):-
1) He's already 20++
2) Who asked him to bought the car in the 1st place if you can't maintained the monthly payment.
3)He need to find his own ways to settle his problem
4) He need to learn to be MORE responsible & matured...
5)Why must we give our hard earned money to a lazy person ?Banyak cantik @$%#*%^$&^
But the biggest problem will be my MIL . As Achid is her "pet".
I know that being a mother we tends to pity our children , but if we really love them we need to groomed them to become a better person in life......
Ok till here , break time over ...need to continue with my job....NOT all people are lazy ...mind you :-)