We will missed you abah... :-(

Salam... 13th Feb 2012 I rcvd a call from my hubby informing that my FIL has passed away at 4.15p.m.
I was stunned to the point that I cannot speak ... my hubby sounded sad and I asked him where he was? He said he just arrived home from an appointment....He told me he just picked up Nana & Danish from taska...
I asked him to sent Nana & Danish to my parents house &  to the hospital afterwards to make all the necessary arrangements since my MIL was there all alone .I told him that I will go back shortly & meet him up at HSA.

After sms to my boss is KL.. I went back & stopped by at SMK BBU to pick up Cha.
Arrived at HSA around 5.40p.m , alhamdulillah managed to squeezed my car at one of the limited parking spots..... met up with hubby & MIL ...When I arrived, Achid & Siti were already there and there I saw my late FIL on the bed covered with white sheet  & my MIL was in tears.... I hugged her & Siti.....Cha also cried ....

By 6.00 we're still waiting for the Morgue people to collect the body ....come 6.15p.m I can no longer contained my frustrations so I run around asking the nurses & ward attendance asking for help to check when can the " Van Jenazah" arrived? As we need to "kebumikan the jenazah" tonight....
Then I saw the ward attendant making calls & after 10 minutes the "Van Jenazah " arrived & took my FIL to the mortuary..

After maghrib my FIL was brought back to Majidee...and the van driver inform that they will come again at 10p.m to bring the body to the cemetery. My hubby asked can it be delayed to 10.30p.m as he wanted to wait for his younger brother..but the driver said no as the Bilal already set the time ..

Here's a picture taken by Nana during last raya ..this picture was taken on our way to Kg Melayu ...( Tok Mak's House)

To abah ..may u rest in peace & we will missed you... Al-Fatihah....

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Hari Isnin lepas I was on leave sebab nak gi EPF & Bank...

Pagi-pagi lagi kami dah sampai kat EPF ..takut ramai orang ..tup-tup tgk cuma ada 5 orang jer yang menunggu ....alhamdulillah ....5 stars untuk kakitangan EPF JB yang buat tugasan dengan cekap & pantas.

Lepas dari tu kami ke Larkin Perdana , plan nak gi Tabung Haji & Bank Rakyat ..tup tup tengok black out....the whole stretch from Larkin to Tmn Suria blacked out....hampeh

Then hubby ajak ke Taman Pelangi jap....lepas sarapan baru kami ke Larkin Perdana balik..nasib dah ok .... hubby dropped me off at Bank Rakyat and dia balik jap nak ambil Cha .
Masuk jer dalam bank ...huiyo ramainya manusia...agaknya baru lepas cuti panjang....hmmm bertahun larr aku kena tunggu ni ... :-(
Tapi tak sampai 3 minit ..nombor aku dipanggil dan alhamdulillah pegawai yang attend aku pun baik. Alhamdulillah settled dah personal loan aku yang aku ambik since year 2007 , kalau ikutkan sampai end of 2012 baru habis bayar , tapi since aku dapat bonus aku settledkan semua, alhamdulillah syukur.

Sementara menunggu Mr R, aku duduk kat dalam bank tu ... dan aku tgk ramai gak orang wat urusan Ar -Rahnu. Dari pemerhatian aku lar kan ..rata - rata yang masuk berurusan dengan kaunter Ar-Rahnu tu lebih banyak lelaki dari perempuan.... pelik gak setahu akulah perempuan yang banyak pakai emas :-)
dan hamba allah sebelah aku tu macam tahu je apa dalam fikiran aku bila dia menegurku dan berkata " yang masuk semua banyak lelaki ..agaknya gadai emas bini dia orang agaknya " hahaha aku cuma tersenyum jer..

Kalaulah betul macam apa yang kakak sebelah aku tu cakap ..hai jenis lelaki apa lar camtu? ...patutnya sebagai ketua keluarga dia yang patut cari duit & sediakan segalanya untuk keluarga..ini terbalik kot....kesian para isteri.

Dah hampir 30 minit Mr R masih tak sampai ..so aku pun bergerak larr ke Bake Well untuk cuci-cuci mata , tgk apa barang baru yang ada....hmmmm last2 tak beli apa-apa pun except for a packet of Marshmallow untuk kudapan Danish... :-)

Dah hampir pukul 1.00 baru Mr R datang....and lastly kami ke Tabung Haji untuk buat tabungan bulanan sikit untuk anak-anak ......

A thought for today.....

I was looking thru my FB and stumbled onto a post made by my friend, Jaslina.
The words captured my attention and I feel I'm obliged to share it with all my friends & families.
Here are the words which she posted on her wall today ...

• Ketahuilah sesusah-susah Anda, ada orang jauh lebih susah daripada Anda.Sesenang-senang Anda, ada orang yang lebih senang daripada Anda.Maka janganlah mudah meninggi diri, merasa bangga mahupun bersikap riya’.Elakkan rasa diri Anda lebih hebat, lebih baik, lebih bagus dari orang lain.Racun ibadah adalah sikap riya’.

• Penggagal kepada sebuah kejayaan adalah sikap merasa diri lebih hebat
  Anda sebagai manusia, pasti akan ada kekurangan dalam apa jua kelebihan.Seseorang manusia pasti memerlukan manusia lain sebagai pelengkap untuk menampal sulam kekurangannya.Tidak ada manusia yang sempurna dari segala segi ada kekurangan, ada kelebihan.

• Sikap terbaik adalah bersederhana.Dalam berusaha pada tahap ekstreme untuk mengejar kejayaan, anda diam-diamkan pencapaian.Orang yang suka menunjuk-nunjuk serta berlebih-lebihan adalah orang yang kurang ilmu.Orang yang suka bersederhana, itulah orang berilmu.

• Penggagal kepada kejayaan adalah sikap merasa bangga, terlalu bangga dengan pencapaian hebat sehingga Anda lupa bersyukur. Anda lupa menghargai orang sekeliling, lupa menghargai pemberian Tuhan.

• Bak kata pepatah, apabila sudah berada di atas, lihat-lihatlah ke bawah, supaya anda tidak menjadi seperti kacang lupakan kulit.

Marilah sama-sama kita berubah menjadi orang yang lebih baik :-)

Cuti CNY.....

Wah..minggu ni marathon wat kek setelah lama diserang angin kemalasan.....ya larr kan azam thn 2012 ni nak start baking membaking balik hahahah . Since cuti panjang ..boleh lar terima tempahan ek? Nasib baiklah En R tolong picitkan bahu I yang lenguh ni hahahah....tapi xpe ...esok kami sekeluarga akan ke N9....... last minute arrangements by En R.... kami semua menurut perintah jer hahaha :-)

Your type of hair ?

Haha ....pagi ni terbaca petikan dibawah as I was blogwalking... so I thought I'd share it with you guys .....Korang tergolong dalam golongan mana??? 

1)  RAMBUT KERENTING NEGRO - bijak, ego, cemburu buta, romantic , 
memilih dan mudah mengamuk bila susah hendak selesaikan masalah

2) RAMBUT KERINTING TEBAL - kurang bijak, degil, cemburu kuat, 
romantic,banyak pergaulan dan susah dalam menyelesaikan masalah diri, 
tidak suka termenung, 

3)   RAMBUT LURUS - bijak, seorang yang happy, bergaya, cemburu, dan 
pandai dalam mengurusan sesuatu tanpa pertolongan 

4) RAMBUT IKAL MAYANG - bijak, berfikir sebelum melakukan sesuatu, 
berfikiran terbuka, banyak pergaulan, dan mudah memaaf kan 
seseorang dengan kesilapan lalu. 

5) RAMBUT HALUS / LEMBUT - bijak sangat, memilih, pemaaf, manja, 
tegas dan cepat melakukan perkerjaan dengan bersungguh-sungguh. 

6) RAMBUT SIKIT - bijak, sentiasa berfikiran negatif pada seseorang,ego, 
dan pandai membuka perniagaan walaupun kecil. 

7) RAMBUT PERANG - kurang bijak, berfikiran terbuka, pemaaf, sosial 
dan bijak lari daripada masalah. 

8) RAMBUT TEBAL - bijak, degil, cemburu, romantic, kasar, banyak 
kawan,dan pandai mengambil hati seseorang. 

9) RAMBUT KUSUT - sangat bijak, berfikiran terbuka, banyak pergaulan,
garang, susah nak memaafkan seseorang, dan pandai dalam 
mengurusan sesuatu tanpa pertolongan. 

10) RAMBUT BERUBAN - kurang bijak, suka termenung,sosial sikit, 
berfikiran terbuka dan pandai selesai kan masalah diri 

11) BOTAK - sendiri pikir.. 




hahaha.... I'm in the category 5 :-)

My new year resolution

 My new year resolutions ......to spend more quality time with my dearest family ... to be a better daughter, wife , sister & Mom....

 To start baking again :-) as towards the last quarter of 2011.. I was attacked by the "lazy" virus hahah

 Will try out more new recipes .to my dearest hubby better put your "diet" routine aside ..:-)

 Will bake and bake again LOL..

 And of course to improve myself spiritually & physically .....

 and also to spend more time with my parents & siblings as well....

A new year again ....

Alhamdulillah, we have entered a new year again... I was asleep when the clock strucked midnight. I've never been to a  New Year celebration whatsoever in my life....much preferring to rest up and have a good night sleep and woke up from bed on New Year's day feeling refreshed, bright eyed & ready to set the tone for how I want to do in the coming weeks & months :-).Nevertheless several texts & sms were received from my friends which awoke me at 12.05am !! yikes :-) Issh korang ni ...tak tidur lagi ke ? haha

After a few blurry seconds ..managed to get back into sleeping mode again & later woke up when someone kiss me on my cheek... owh how sweet my lil boy already awake & now snuggling at my hair....ni mesti x de kes lain ni ,,nak suruh Mama dia buat susu larr tu :-P. After passing him his milk and after solat..went down to my kitchen and look for things to make my family a good breakfast..

Then we spent a wonderful  yet peaceful day yesterday . I also managed to organized the kitchen cupboards, the kids wardrobe, went for a jog, baked a Marble Coffee Cheesecake took a nap with the kiddos in the afternoon, and later that nite thought a lot about my 2012 intentions. Because there's nothing like the start of another year to get us reflecting on what we'd like to do differently...rite?

For me, 2011 was a huge time of upheaval, and I know that it was for many of you as well. Here's to a 2012 that feels more settled. Here's to creating stability, to taking care of ourselves and of each other, to find the things.. big and small that would  make our life easier and more enjoyable for us all. I'll be thinking and sharing more of these topic here, so stay tuned. So here's s to a new beginnings !!