Suami Workaholic....

Semalam a friend of mine called and shared with me that she's sooo fed up with her husband yang katanya sangat- sangat busy hingga dah tak kisah lagi tentang hal-hal di rumah......segala-galanya terletak pada bahu dia... well I pity her and I told her that sometimes I also felt the same way......

Jadinya today my N3 will be on "Suami workaholic.....satu Anugerah atau Musibah?"

Ntahlah...susah nak cakap ya....

Mempunyai suami yang giler kerja ada pro's & con's nya.....

Pro's side - Bila dia giler bekerja ..prestasi dirinya meningkat dan mungkin dia dinaikkan pangkat dan secara tidak langsung mengukuhkan lagi ekonomi keluarga..... dan yang senang keluarganya juga......dan ini kalau dilihat dari sudut positif adalah satu Anugerah daripada Allah.....

tapi.....

dari sudut Con's pulak- Kadang-kadang sebagai isteri kita rasa terpinggir dan sakit hati bila suami tidak mempedulikan hal anak isteri oleh kerana terlalu sibuk....dan segala-galanya terletak di bahu sang isteri....

kalau si isteri tidak bekerja oklah lagi..tapi bagi yang bekerja of course rasa tension yang amat sangat......dan pada sudut ini ianya dilihat sebagai satu Musibah.....

Sebagai isteri kami tahu kami patut menyokong dan memberi sokongan moral kepada sang suami cuma kadang- kadang kami berharap agar sang suami dapat menjadi lebih peka dan meluangkan waktu pada anak isteri ..lebih lebih lagi selepas waktu kerja.... dan bukan membawa balik tugas ke rumah pada setiap hari.... ( sekali -sekala mungkin ok ).

Lebih parah lagi kalau sang suami terlalu taksub ingin memuaskan hati boss- boss mereka sehingga keinginan anak isteri di tolak ke tepi.... dan bila di tegur oleh sang isteri si suami akan menjawab dia buat semua ini agar tidak di buang kerja ....@$%&$(*

Berbalik kepada cerita kawan saya tadi....dia rasa dia ingin berhenti kerja dan pulang ke kampung bersama anak-anak nya.... kerana dia rasakan bahawa dengan cara ini suaminya akan lebih menghargai keluarga...

Saya pula menasihati dia agar terus bersabar dan berdoa agar Allah memberi hidayah kepada sang suami agar berubah..... dunia dunia jugak...akhirat pun penting jugak....

Hang in there fren..... :-) sayang oooo nak berhenti gaji hang tu dah ribu riban.......

Kebusyan.... :-(

Busy kebusyan betullah minggu ni dan minggu depan.....

Today need to attend Seminar at The Zon ....&

need to do presentation to new customer - Sensata Technologies tomorrow...

and off to Tanashin Malacca next week ( 040308)..&

to attend training on Calibration on 060308......

tak masuk lagi nak gi mengundi pada 080308.... 13& 14 pulak ke Perak untuk attend wedding.....

hahhhhh penatnya.... Allah je lah yang tahu :-)

Semalam di Danga Bay

Semalam selepas Maghrib...kami mebawa anak-anak kami ke Danga Bay untuk yang kesekian kalinya .... budak-budak tu tak jemu - jemu ke sana....:-P

Batrisyia & Nana posing kat Rumah Limas.....

Baru sampai....our maid & our kids.....

Me and Batrisyia...baru siap makan malam ...alhamdulillah....

Nana @Merry go round....tapi dia pangggil ride ni Horsie..... :-)
Kelakar anak bujang saya ni.... sampai merry go round dah berhenti dia tak nak turun sampai melalak heehhhe...
Hubby & Batrisyia.....tengah tunggu our food....cepat arrr ..lapar ni....
Me..... :-)

Ok...till next N3.

Salam......

Raya Cina part 2

After we've checked out from Grand Continental , we proceed to Kuala Trengganu.
We stop at Beserah to buy some Akok & Bahulu and keropok lekor...... btw the keropok lekor we bought at one of the stall called Pak Soh was marvellous.....yummy :-)

Then along the way we stop again to buy some corn and air Nira.... this time I've finally got to taste it :-).... last time when I was 8 mths pregnant with Wardina I wanted so much to taste the Air Nira but at that point of time being raya and all , mostly of the stall selling it was closed :-(

So this time hubby pointed out that I should buy it....thanks dear :-)
As we approached Kijal we stop again to buy some lemang and daging siat. ( these stalls are located near the Awana Kijal Resort..... eventhough the lemang is slightly smaller than the ones we found in Negeri Sembilan but the taste was superb...

We then went to Pasar Payang ..... the traffic was heavy but luckilly we got a parking spot.... bought a few kaftans & tudung and hubby bought his MU Jersey and mom bought a few kaftans & tudung too..... since it's already 5.00 p.m we proceed to Mak Long's house in Pengadang Baru....

Mak Long and Kak Ani pointed out that the heavy traffic was due to the Perkampungan Hadhari and also the official opening of the Masjid Kristal. No wonder..... the traffic was sooooo heavy..... and they mentioned that the angkasawan troupe was also here..... patutlah everybody wanna meet SMS lah tu.....
The next day after saying goodbye to Mak Long and Kak Ani ..we decided to stay a nite at Cherating.....

We rented a 2 room apartment and had a very nice seafood dinner.....
Took some pictures at Cherating....will upload it here later.....:-)

On the 10th of Feb....we went back home.....
My mom said that we shud plan to go to Trengganu again somewhere in April ....since it's not a National public holiday nor school holidays.

But Dad pointed out we should go to Sydney in December... he said that he'll sponsored the accomodation for us....we only need to fork out the Airfare for our family.....hmmmmm tempting..... will consider........:-P
Hubby pointed out we shoud go to NZ rather than Aus........ what everlah dear..... bottomline...insyallah kalau ada rezeki kita pergilah nanti.... kalau takde nak wat camner hehe... but first we need to apply the passport for Cha , Nana & Danish..... :-)

Cuti Raya Cina......

Salam.....

Cuti raya Cina hari tu kami sekeluarga dan my parents decided to go to Trengganu. Sebab the last time we went there was somewhere in 2006 ....

so kira dah lama gak lah tak pergi.

Tapi masalahnya ...... I dah habaq kat my hubby yang kita akan ke mana-mana ke since January....tapi dia always jawab tak tahu lagi....

then tup tup... on 3/2 he ifmd why not we go to Trengganu..... I was like huh? Dalam hati bercakap " ada lagi ke hotel ...cuma lagi 4 hari lagi"....

Dia pun suruh I call-call kan hotels or chalet ......

I pun call dari 3 hb hinggalah 6 hb.... semuanya PENUH.....including the stupid chalets yg nama tak pernah dengar.....

I pun ifmd my hubby & my mom....

Malam tu my Dad called , dia cakap dia dapat booked 2 rooms kat Hotel Grand Continental kat Kuantan.

So ....lepas berbincang kita orang pun setuju....sebab my Mom kata kita duduk Kuantan semalam and lepas tu proceed ke Trengganu kot kot ada rezeki kita nanti....

Kami bertolak pada 7 Feb @ 8.00 pagi dan sampai ke Kuantan pada pukul 1.00 tghr.

Pada mulanya kami fikir nak tidur sana 2 malam tapi bertukar fikiran kerana service level hotel ini teruk...

So pada sapa-sapa yang nak duduk Grand Continental Kuantan next time tak payahlah.........lupakan jer lah hasrat tu....

Masa booking my dad mentioned nak attached rooms which they cfmd shud be no problem.... bila dah check in ....tak dapat pun.

Lepas tu bantal kat bilik tu bau busuk.

and the spare pillow dekat almari tu.....lagi worst....BERKULAT........

And to make matter even worser.... bangun pagi tu tak de air panas......

tension tu.......

Breakfast punya food macam hidup segan mati tak mahu.... pulak tu ramainya manusia....... bila angin dah naik lotang....

So kita pun checked out.

Hotel Grand Continental has been banned by our family officially :-(

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